MAA

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Consider this job posting:

“Nodegree or prior experience required;

 Salary and hours non-negotiable;

 No paid benefits;

 Lifelong tenure.”

Would you be surprised to learn that more than 100 million Indians now hold this position?

Their job title is “Mom”

Mums are amazing aren’t they? Who else would do yourwashing, cook you delicious Sunday dinners, pick you up every time you fall, be a constant shoulder to cry on and still fuss and worry about you long after you’ve grown up and left home?

How confusing it must have been for her to cheer on my growing independence when I was a child, while silently bidding goodbye to my baby years. How challenging it may have been for her to part with me during the day when it was time to send me to school.

In a way, she does a thankless job for us. No wages, no holidays. Non-stop work for 365 days a year.

Mother is the one who frames us, the one who builds us both physically and mentally and empowers us to face the world. She is the sunshine for every child and is always the first person whom we think of in our happy and not so happy times. She is the first thought that comes to our mind when we are unwell, when we are sad, when we are not able to achieve something or when we reach the greatest height of success.She is the one who knows us very well like no one else can know.

  Her smiling face removes all sorrows and frets of theworld. Mothers are a constant source of strength to all of us.

In the words of Agatha Christie,

 “Amother’s love for her child is like nothing else in the world. It knows no law,no pity. It dares all things and crushes down remorselessly all that stands inits path.”

No words would be able to thank her for her efforts but we can say her big thanks and give lots of respect and care.

So this mother’s day you can think of understanding your mother- know her well.

Don’t miss the chance to understand the complexity ofyour mother’s life, forgive her for not being perfect, and learn what she didfor you.

 You can ask your mom to describe the happiest days of her life, and the saddest days.

You can ask about her childhood pets, favorite toys and best friends.

 You can ask abouther high school years — about her dreams and early boy crushes and aboutmeeting your dad .

You can ask her about your birth and what you were likeas a toddler.

 Each of us wants to feel our life matters; we want to be known. We connect with others through stories. We understand ourselves better through stories. We learn how to live through stories.

For when we say “Behind every successful man there is a woman”, I can undoubtedly say that, that woman is a MOTHER.

 If your mom is no longer alive, consider this comforting concept: The words “Happy Mother’s Day, Mom” still belong to you. Go ahead and say them who have played  an important role in nurturing you.

SO

To all Mother’s out there and not just my own,

You are amazing!

You are Beautiful Queens and today I am sharing lots of love to you through my words.

Wherever you are

This is YOUR day!

In the end I would dedicate one song which is loved by everyone of us

Main kabhi batlata nahin
Par andhere se darta hoon main Maa
Yoon to main dikhlata nahin
Teri parwaah karta hoon main Maa
Tujhe sab hai pata, hai na Maa
Tujhe sab hai pata… Meri Maa

Chasing the Sky

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Chasing the sky, wondering why?

Hoping to fly but all you can do is try.

Try till you reach the sky.

Try till you reach the sky.

Killing time and waiting for each day to pass, I wonder when that day will come which will make me laugh, waiting for the time to come when I will feel satiated with myself. Started out trying to reach the sky didn’t know that reaching there would be so hard. Trying is what I did but one day self-doubt started to creep.

Believe in yourself, believe in yourself I shouted, but I was not there to hear the voice.

I was probably hidden away somewhere there, tried to seek the voice, but what did I get? Silence.

Felt depressed and had lost faith; everything was dark around and was feeling insane.

There were clouds and there was storm, how to come out was the only thing I thought.

Needed a spark just to turn away the dark, where would I find it? Where do I search?

Lost, I went to find that spark, to find the way out of this dark. But what did I find? Nothing.

Didn’t know that the storm was not something that had come from far, it was there inside right from the start.

Knew that I needed to step in the storm and find that spark, scared my mind told me thousand reasons why not to go, but I would come out as a changed person was the only thing I know.

Went in with faith and survived the fate, in the end didn’t know how I managed but did return safe.

For the one thing I learnt is, the switch to the darkness and the light is in your hands still we don’t know how to handle that switch, because in the end life has its own way for us to teach .


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Happy Sunday…!

♥️ OR 🧠

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 I was torn between two options—one risky, the other is safe. The risky option lured me to make a quick online purchase. Even though I know it’s more than I can or should spend, time is running out on the availability of the item. The site is telling me exactly how many of the item are left.  I was not sure exactly whether it will fit into my wardrobe but because there are only two left, I figured I need to hurry. My heart is shouting a clear Yes, telling me how great I will look in it and how happy it will make me. Shouting No just as loudly is my head, which instructs me to take a pass and save my money.

I ended up buying that thing.

Again my brain started weighing things practically and told me why did I listen to my heart !!

So, Heart or Brain?

We all have it, we experience it differently. The heart and brain will never be one. They are not friends and they never will be. My heart is depressed, and my brain is overloaded with the information. The brain fights for logic and survival, the heart fights for compassion and fairness.

Life isn’t always rainbows and unfortunately one says, ” we grow old stupidity sells that has nothing to do with the heart“. The heart feels yet the brain is more logical, the heart knows it never dies but the brain is aware of. Their is always an internal battle we all face on daily basis between the heart and the brain. They are never at peace.

Which one will lead to more happiness, purpose and fulfillment?

The answer is both.

This is not about neglecting a part of you.

You Don’t Have to Choose

You don’t have to choose between your heart and your head.

Once you understand them, and understand how to leverage their strengths, you will make millions and become famous overnight.

Just kidding…

But it will change the way you live>>

I started out by listening to my heart. I often feel drawn somewhere. I feel inspired to do something.  If my heart nudges me to do something meaningful, I’ll often run into fear. I’ll run into ‘what if’ thoughts. I do my best to welcome them in. I let go of my expectations.
And when I say let go of my expectations, I don’t mean I don’t have thoughts. I still have fearful thoughts, I just don’t give them as much attention as I used to. As I’m writing this article, I don’t worry about what you will think of it, because it would muddle my inspiration behind it. It has taken me a long time to get to this place, so don’t think that you must let go of everything today. But I also have to remember to be practical. I got the inspiration to write this article, but the practical part of me helped me outline, write, and edit the same.

 If you want to follow your heart, you have to listen to yourself and have confidence in your own inner GPS.

Summary

So, should you follow your heart or your head?

The answer is both.

Remember that there is no rush. A big part of the anguish you feel is because you’re trying to force progress.

Take a deep breath and relax.

Enjoy this adventure we call life.

For now, I am broke 😝😝 and both my heart and brain are looking forward to start their fight again!🤔🤔


Waiting for the month to end because this fight won’t!
Hope to see you soon. 😊😊

Jack of all trades, master of none!

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“Things which matter the most must never be at the mercy of things which matter the least”                   

                                     – Goethe

In this world full of chaos there is a chance that you can get lost, in this constant humdrum of getting things done, maintaining work life balance and proving yourself, there is a chance that our mind can’t really focus on one thing and the output is zero. We try to get too many things done at once. Chasing many goals at the same time. Multi-tasking, mental juggling, plate spinning, and general tail chasing soon follows. As it does, we begin to live in a state of constant distraction, getting further away from achieving anything of real value.

We praise the multi-tasker, where devices with multiple functions are always considered superior, on the surface, it seems as if our multitasking makes us supremely productive, and therefore little about that feels problematic. We marvel at the wonders allowed by our technologized world: sending an email instead of waiting for snail mail, WhatsApping a friend while Skyping with Mom while streaming Netflix, opening endless tabs and windows in a daily quest for information. As technological tools become increasingly integrated into our everyday activities—not only through smartphones and tablets but in wearable technologies and real-time, auto-updating applications—we become socially conditioned to multitask with the same effortlessness that our gadgets demonstrate. And we are conditioned to believe this power to be a blessing, not a curse.

BUT,

The reality is that when we try to juggle many tasks at once, we often never finish any one of them fully. We talk about doing many things and ultimately do very few, often leaving efforts unfinished or abandoned.

Why don’t we just stop and take a breather? Why do we keep firing on all engines, even if we can tell we’re losing a sense of direction?

What if we start to look at life with a different approach, of letting go some things and concentrating on the things which matter the most?

Try to think this as driving your energy or putting in your efforts to most important things in your life at present and letting go of the distractions which puts you in a fuss. The power of saying ‘No’ to certain things comes in handy then. Saying ‘No’ to all the distractions which deviate you from your path, to the actions which disturb your inner peace. Nobody is perfect and each and every one of us has chaos in our life, life can’t be perfect, then why to destroy our inner peace, why to create unnecessary complexities in the hurry of getting things done. Believe me you can achieve more if you let go of this distractions and focus on what is important.

But how do we do that?

 Simply re-evaluate your priorities…

 Try to take one task at a time and focus on it. Start with the things which are the most important to you and let go of the things which are unnecessary. You have to decide

What matters to you the most?

What exactly is, or was, the life you had hoped to live?

Is it one with less work, more family time, and lower levels of stress? Or is it instead one geared towards professional success

Do you like prioritizing physical activity and staying fit?

What are the same things that bring the smile to your face at the end of day?

Once you answer those questions, you can begin to unearth what truly matters to you.

And when you discover that you will see that you are making time for what matters to you the most, you will be happy, you will cherish each and every moment and you will be fully invested in the task at hand. You will laugh; share, care and you will make time for your hobbies and passions. By taking small steps you will start achieving more in life. You will feel peace with yourself.

Giving time to yourself

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Hey, Rockstarrs!

How are you holding up? Are you still rooted in your desire to make this the best year ever, or are you starting to wax and wane from your intentions? It’s okay; this is the equivalent of having ebb and flow. There will be times when you are flying high, and there will be times when you are riding low.

If you are a good observer or a social person (no matter in daily life or on social media) you must have seen people complaining about being depressed. Whether it’s because of relationships, family matters, financial problems, professional life or because of Studies, you will hear one sentence from every second person that

I AM HAVING DEPRESSION! I CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE! I WANT TO GET RID OF EVERYTHING! I QUIT!

So we all know that these days Depression is talk of the town. And to be honest we are using it as if it is a simple fever which it definitely is not. 

Have you ever tried untangling the thoughts that are disturbing you and going to the root causes that with the neutral mind instead of just getting up in the middle by saying I CANT?

Have you ever tried to sit there and count the blessings you have except some bad things happening?

Have you ever given yourself time?

If most of you have answered “YES”. Then I am proud of you. I am literally proud of you. Because it is the key to make your life not best but at least better.

Give yourself the understanding – and the relaxed belief – that everything doesn’t have to happen in this exact moment. Alignment has to occur. Things have to get into place. You have to be ready to receive what you’re asking for whether it’s a person, financial gains, a relationship, or whatever it is. That’s how it is with the goals you put into place. You’ve set the goal. You’ve laid out your plans. Now you have to work on them. Bit by bit. Little by little. One by one. You may not see instant momentum, but if you give it time when you look back you’ll see how far you’ve come and will have evidence – EVIDENCE – that you are going in the right direction.

We all dream of that … and even if we have already lived similar moments, we always want to get to another level … always higher, always better…

We still have 320 days to get it right. Have faith. Be patient. You’re doing great! If you still feel the pull of excitement then roll with it! However, if anxiety, doubt, and worry are trying to creep in meet them at the door and tell them ACCESS DENIED!!!

You’re a forever work in progress.  And it’s the truth because as soon as you reach one goal you will immediately birth another…and another…and another. That’s what makes life, well, LIFE! 

Breathe!

Smile!

Enjoy the process!

Have a Blessed life.

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SELF IMPROVEMENT

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Another week gone by, Grab your drink; it’s time to catch up. If we were sipping coffee together I would tell you in the amazement that surfing internet and reading blogs have become my most favorite pastime. Once a while surfing the Google I came across this example from one blog. Here goes the example written by Dr. Marvin Marshall;

A woman having lunch at a small café was seated next to a family celebrating their son’s basketball game. Their conversation was so lively that the woman joined in. “You must have been on the winning team,” she said.

The kid grinned from ear to ear, “No, we lost by 20 points. The other team had a killer defense. We were only able to make one basket.”

“Did you make the basket?” she asked.

With his mouth filled with cake and ice cream, the boy shook his head, “No.”

His father reached across the table to give him a high five. His mother hugged him and said, “You were awesome.”

The woman at the next table rubbed her chin.

The boy looked at the confused woman and said, “At last week’s game, I took nine shots but they all fell short of the basket. This week I took eight shots and three of them hit the rim! Dad says I’m making progress.”

A thought popped up in my mind that we all are that little boy, and we can also try to improve ourselves every day. Life is unpredictable and often harsh, but whatever life throws us, we can handle it, if we just try to be a little better each day than we were the day before. Give me five minutes of your time, and I will convince you why self-improvement is important.

 So, what is self-improvement?

Personal growth or self-improvement is the continuous process of understanding and discovering oneself and trying to identify their own true value. Personal growth has a profound effect on every single aspect of our life. As we grow on a personal level, we begin to feel more passionate about life in general. Self- improvement provides us with the opportunity to become the best possible version of ourselves.

Why self-improvement?

One of the best things about life is that we never have to stop learning. There are always new skills to learn and techniques for us to adopt. When you look at the most successful people in the world, they understand this. The best entrepreneurs in the world don’t act like they know everything. They all understand the fact that they have to continuously learn to be successful.

For us to live life to the fullest, we must continually look for ways to improve. Learning is tough and can be frustrating. When we are looking to learn as much as possible, there’s less of a chance that we will come off as arrogant. True charmers don’t make themselves look smart, they make others look smart. And when people see that you are trying to learn from them, it makes liking you that much easier.

Are you ready to accept your flaws?

 It is very important in our life that we discover our own self, and by discovering one’s own self I mean analyzing oneself and accepting the flaws. Self-improvement can only begin when we know our true self. Remember that without self-awareness, personal development simply can’t occur. This is because you have to be aware of where you currently stand and where you can improve the skills required for you to grow. By introspection one can know one’s capabilities, weakness and inabilities. One can overcome his inabilities and make full use of his abilities for self-improvement.

Are you ready to change yourself?

 After you’ve figured out what the skills or abilities you require to realize your ambitions, you need to start thinking about how you can change your life for the better by improving them. People are stuck in their comfort zone and they don’t want to step out of it, but being stuck in at a place won’t bring you growth, stepping out of your comfort zone helps you face your fears, take risks and face challenges, you become stronger and better versions of yourselves. I read this sentence somewhere and it is very true “people often fear change but it is the only thing that brings progress”.

It is about taking time and making a commitment to invest in your greatest resource that is you yourself. When you realize your own value the results are amazing.

How to improve yourself?

Some days, it will be easier than others, but if we just put forth the tiniest of effort, maybe give some change to someone less fortunate, or smile when you don’t feel like it, things will get better.  By taking things one day at a time, with tiny improvements, you can get through anything life throws at you.

I try to apply this principle in my own life, successfully at times and not so successfully at others. This must not be done by imitating others but through hard work and sincere efforts.

We all have the same twenty-four hours, so what’s your excuse? Hustle! No pain, no gain! Stop playing small. Take massive action, go all-in. They’re crushing it, why aren’t you? The steps to success are quick, easy, and proven. Do whatever it takes. You miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take. The universe loves speed.

But you must not forget to love yourself while you’re on the mission of self-improvement.

Loving yourself is equally important.

“Everyone thinks of changing the world but no one thinks of changing himself”

  – LEO TOLSTOY

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Empathy is more than “I HEAR YOU”

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 “I’ll slap you if you say another word”, shouts dad at his younger son.

The mother silently removes her husband’s socks and places his shoes on the rack.

“Sorry”, says dad to his younger son.

“Why did you even give birth to me?” shouts son at his mother.

The mother gently places his head on her lap and waves her hand over her head.

“Sorry”, says son to the mother and sleeps.

The mother knew that her husband got abused by his boss at work.

The mother knew that her son couldn’t get selected for the football championship.

Mother is the greatest example of empathy. She vibrates empathy!

So what is Empathy?

Wikipedia say’s, the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. But I would like you to take a moment to recall a time where you were going through a hard time and someone empathized with you. How did it feel? Pretty good I expect…

For when Mahatma Gandhi said,

“I call him religious who understands the suffering of others”

Relationships, partnerships and friendships all are based on the one basic common factor which is understanding, it plays a huge role for our relationships to work. Through understanding builds respect and acceptance. Parents and siblings, co-workers and all the other relationships require empathy. People like when they are understood, it builds trust and the same person is more likely to reciprocate the effect.

Empathy seems to be a very common word for some of us (I use it in my CV as one of my strengths), here we thought therapists are made out of empathy and Of-course you must have used it a hundred  times, but what do you convey when you say “I empathize you” obviously you want to say that you understand that person, but do you really?  This world we live in is very complex and so are the people living here, they are like some encryption code; very hard to decipher, people say something different on your face and often they feel something a lot more inside.  A person might be happy or would smile in front of anyone but who knows there must be volcano’s bursting inside.  We here simply believe that empathy is not only what you hear and see about a person but something more, something which the person is hiding inside him.  To feel and display empathy, it’s not necessary to share the same experiences or circumstances as others. Rather, empathy is an attempt to better understand the other person by getting to know their perspective. For one thing, it takes time & effort to understand how and why others feel the way they do. Frankly, we aren’t willing to invest those resources for too many people, and even when we’re motivated to show empathy, doing so isn’t easy. But when done they will know that stronger bonds can exist, that deeper levels of understanding are available, and the key to communication is the very thing they lack.

When you face Failures in life, loosing someone so close to you or any other circumstances, the pain you go through is all yours and at that time you need people to understand what goes in inside you. What happens at that time is people show sympathy, they are there to sympathize, they understand that you are going through a hard time and to tell you, that everything will be fine but putting in that effort and understanding you is what matters.

In the movie Dear Zindagi itself the character of Kaira (alia bhatt) was only able to confront her fears and complications in the front of Dr. Jug (Shah Rukh Khan) after spending time with Dr. Jug, Kaira made him her comfort zone. Turning to him for advice seemed the easiest thing to do. As he was the only one in her life who was capable of empathizing her.


Take-away:

  • Find someone you can talk to who will really listen to you and encourage you.
  • Those who are hearing you out patiently give them a listening ear too
  •  Ask yourself, “What is this person feeling?” especially in those sticky situations.
  •  When you understand others, they’ll probably want to understand you – and this is how you can start to build cooperation, collaboration, and teamwork.

So here I would end this awesome write up by a beautiful quote:

“I do not ask the wounded person how he feels; I myself become the wounded person.” 
― Walt Whitman, Song of Myself

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New year, New beginnings

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“To the extroverts,

At the party,

And the introverts at home on your own,

Happy New Year”

May this be a year of fun, and reflection of blooming growth and self-love.

“New year, new me.”

We’ve all heard it before.

Every Instagram caption, tweet and Facebook status says the same thing as December 31 rolls into January.

We tend to coin this term“clichéd” or “ridiculous.”

Although we’ve seen this phrase used thousands of times — and have ironically watched our friends and followers stay exactly the same throughout the entire year — for some people, a new year can be a good excuse to begin a new chapter in life.

In a sense, the New Year is a new chapter for everyone.

We change calendars, begin writing new dates on our papers and commence a brand new journey along a 12-month path.

For some, though, the New Year has a much deeper meaning than most.

It means starting over.

I want you to consider the concept of starting over the start of a new year always feels like a chance to try new things and maybe even“start over” with our lives. This is the perfect opportunity to reflect on what is and what isn’t working. The most appropriate time where we can retrospect and reevaluate our life choices.

As the old year fades, our thoughts inevitably turn to new beginnings, and often people do that by taking New Year’s resolutions.

 New Year’s resolutions means that you start fresh and try and do something better that will make an improvement in your life. Starting over is about moving on from the past, which could have been good or bad.

It’s become popular for people to make fun of New Year’s resolutions (they never work!) in an almost gleeful way the reason is simple: They’re too broad. But New Year’s resolutions are kind of like a drunk uncle. You know you shouldn’t take him too seriously … but you can’t help but laugh and play along when he comes around once a year.

It is simple and easy to make New Year Resolutions, the question is whether you carry through what you decided and promised. This is most important. What’s the use of making decisions and promises, but not following them through?

The resolutions you make are the product of motivation and hope of achieving something, but what happens with most of us is that we fail to carry out the resolutions in the course of time, This happens because people loose motivation, enthusiasm and belief in the process, they consider these resolutions as mere desires and not goals. These resolutions should be considered as goals and not desires. You can plan them, write them down and repeat them every day. The qualities of motivation self-discipline and perseverance would come in handy then, and don’t worry if you fail, you do not have to wait for the next year to set your goals again, every day is a new opportunity a new beginning to start with. I don’t actually believe New Year’s Day is any different than any other day. Every day of your life is a new beginning, not just the first day of the year. You can make Daily Resolutions, not just New Year Resolutions. BUT NEW YEAR STAND TO BE PERFECT OPPORTUNITY for all those who have failed to start making the changes that they said they would make next week or next month.

We can’t rest on our past. No matter how good we were yesterday, we can’t depend on that happening again by accident. Your fresh start has to be purposeful. We should see crossing over to the New Year as a new beginning. And, don’t just be as good as last year. Be even better. Treat every day as a new opportunity and strive hard every day, eventually everything will fall in its place.

As mentioned, if you had a bad year, it’s even more of a reason to startover. So, when you walk back into work after ringing in 2019, recognize that it’s a new year – and a new day – and it’s time to start over.

Celebrate endings for they precede new beginnings….!!

So please everyone mention your New Year resolutions in the comment section below.

If you are first time visiting our blog please make sure you read the other one.

Once Again happy New year!!

Moment of Faith

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“When life takes it own course sometimes we just don’t get to choose”

What if there are miracles you have never dreamed of? We all have heard it before, and somewhere in the back of our heads we know it, but I am not sure how many of us take take much time to think about the fact that at any moment, everything we have known could be gone. There are moments in the life when everything around you, tells you nothing will work out but those are the moments when you have to believe in yourself the most. People are always going to tell you that you cannot do it. They will break your confidence; break your ego completely but in that one moment you just have to trust yourself. My biggest question to the reader above would be this: Why are you determined to think that your ideas not work for you? Why are you searching for reasons that your ideas won’t succeed instead of figuring out a way to make something good happen?

Its all about having faith for just that one moment.

So what is Faith?

Faith is our system of belief, our belief in something which makes us take certain actions. Every one of us has faith in something, it may be a cause or it may be a divine entity, what develops this faith is the thought process behind the faith, the constant repetition of thoughts to our brain makes us believe in something which transforms into faith. Let us consider the power of faith as it is demonstrated by a man who is known to all the civilization, Mahatma Gandhi. In this man the world has the most astounding example of faith. Despite the fact that he had none of the orthodox tools of power, such as money, soldiers, materials, he accomplished the astounding feat of influencing two hundred million minds to coalesce and move in unison, as a single mind. He created this out of his understanding of faith, and through his ability transplanted that faith into the minds of people.

 Think what would happen if we start believing in ourselves, we will be motivated throughout the journey, we might fail but we will always know the purpose for which we are grinding, faith then becomes the antidote for failure. Taking a leap of faith is believing in yourself, starting to listen to that inner voice which has been shouting inside you. The path is never clearly laid out, but we get clues along the way that give us assurance that we’re not out-of-our-minds for pursuing our dreams. Everyone has their own respective journey of what they’re manifesting in life. Focus on your desires, and trust that if you pay attention to what you want, it will happen exactly as it’s supposed to.

One day I was just surfing the instagram I saw a video of Snoop Dog (American Rapper) He said in this video:

“I wanna thank me

I wanna thank me for believing in me

I wanna thank me for doing all this hard work

I wanna thank me for having no days off

I wanna thank me for never quitting

I wanna thank me for always being a giver

I wanna thank me for trying to do all the right than wrong

I wanna thank me for being me all the time

His words just went in to my head .Then eventually I started thinking we all start out as kids with big dreams; we want to be movie stars, astronauts and sports superstars. We want to be somebody. But then we get out into the real world and it starts beating us down, and then we start beating ourselves down. We get to the point where we have little or no faith in ourselves. We all deal with vulnerability, uncertainty, and failure. Some of us, trust that if we move forward anyway, then we will figure it out. Taking a leap of faith in that moment of breakdown helps us believe in ourselves. Everything we have in our life is a result of our belief in our self and the belief that it’s possible. If you can be patient, focused and hold onto how abundant you are despite your lack of material abundance. Eventually what you need will flow in your direction.

So Lets start believing .Lets keep dreaming, one step at a time ….

I would like to end my blog here with these beautiful lines :

If you think you dare not, you don’t

If you like to win, but you think you can’t

It is almost certain you won’t

If you think you’ll lose, you’re lost

For out of the world we find,

Success begins with a fellow’s will

It’s all in the state of mind.

If you think you are outclassed, you are,

You’ve got to think high to rise,

You’ve got to be sure of yourself before

You can ever win a prize

Life’s battles don’t always go

To the stronger or faster man,

But soon or late the man who wins

Is the man WHO THINKS HE CAN!

Napoleon Hill

Think and Grow Rich

Blessings and Love…